When I think about this day, I don’t think so much about the history and the politics.

I think about Becky and Myrna, and their joy together as they walked down the aisle.

I think of Richard and Dean, who will celebrate together in a beautiful ceremony in North Carolina.

I think of Michael and Daniel, who anxiously awaited this day.

I think of Loie and Daniel and Terry and Karen.  Mihael, Leah, Stacey, and Martyn.

I think of the joy we have found together, how so many have suffered along the way.  I am glad today.

I have nothing against those who disagree.  You are also welcome in my family.  There’s no getting away from each other; I trust God with my own beliefs and with yours.  God is our judge, and he is fair, and just, and merciful.

I want to do our best to live together.  I want us to learn to learn not to exclude each other.  To listen, have courage, and be kind.